Thursday, June 3, 2010

Is not the end of the world , Is the beginning of a NEW CHALLENGE

Sometimes we don't know how to deal with "failure", sometimes we just blamed it on someone else, sometimes in our way to feel stronger than others we just act kind of jerk and show our uptown attitude to others, but I've been in same position so many times that I think I learned how to deal with my "Failure Crisis", I do say a couple of really mean and bad words and then I look at myself and try to find out my problem and why didn't success , once i find where was the problem so I come up with a couple of solutions and trace one more time the new goal, and the requirements and sacrifices that is gonna take to make it work, so I might have to stop GOOGLE ING!!!! even now and then, so might have to stop certain social network account, and for sure I will have block so many good webpages ... but the worst turning off my mobile and the most painful part .. stop hanging out with my friends .. but is for a good cause ..
Let's do it ..

Wednesday, June 2, 2010

Love .. under my point of view

I've been asked what is Love for me?
Actually couldn't find a real answer but I did found some examples
and later on I found what is Love for me
Is being Free, is being honest with each other, is caring about each others feelings
Is not about an endless pampering, is not about being in a honey moon forever
IS being there no matter what, is understanding , is being supportive
Love is not selfish, is giving, Love is not about how i feel is about how my partner feels, Love is not just my comfort is about my partner's comfort
I've learned that loving a person is not about having it with me, is about setting free that person.
I've learned that love is forever in certain point it might change but is still love
I've learned is not about how much time i spend with my partner is about how "much" i can understand him
Is not about being around him 24hrs a day is seeing him once in a while and make the most of it
Is not about sticking to him forever, is giving him his own space to grow .. giving myself a break of him
Is not about being right now with him, is about a long time committed relationship
Love is kind of difficult to explain but when you feel it ... you know is for real.